What it means to”Work on yourself”.

Hey guys,

I know I’ve been a little MIA lately… Well A LOT.   We all know that life gets in the way and prevents you from doing all of the things you want to do. Truthfully, I have just been feeling very uninspired lately. Life has just been on autopilot for me. But, I’ve been trying to reboot and refocus. I needed a jump start to realign myself with all of my goals and wants and needs.

After giving it some thought, I realized that my “epiphany” is literally the cliche line “Working on myself”. That line that you always hear popping up in your life when something really crappy happens to you. Whether it’s after a breakup, being fired from your job, or any other just “sucky” event. Things happen that totally throw you off. You find yourself getting lost in this abyss of nothingness where you have no idea what direction you’re going. Or want to go. Or need to go.

People tell you to just “keep working on yourself”.  What does that even mean? To work on yourself.. That could mean a rainbow of things. The endless possibilities of “working on yourself” just throws you off even more.

If you’re drifting off into the abyss of possibilities, keep reading. 


To put work towards yourself isn’t a life-altering move that shifts your world on its axis and creates massive changes. It’s the small decisions you make daily that can alter you in the long run. Deciding to make it a point to get to the gym that day or grab a drink with a friend. Deciding to take a bubble bath with your overpriced bath bomb instead of a cold, miserable shower and your “Bad Day” playlist on blast. On some days, K-cups don’t get to cut it and that overpriced latte is all you need to make your day a tad better.

          Good vibes


Good vibes.

You’re going along your way. Making your good choices and attempting happy thoughts. And then… this happens out of nowhere. One day, you look back and feel like its all for nothing and you just want to go back into the comfort of the abyss.Well, don’t. Because your turning point is right around the corner. 


I know I’ve picked a heavyish kind of topic for my first blog post in almost a year, but I believe that you never fight where your inspiration wants to take you. It took me here and I figured I’d share it with yall.  I cant be theonly one that got lost in the abyss for a while, so I figured id share some of my experience.



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